1、【释义】指作为长辈,对下辈的过失要能装糊涂。2、【用法】作宾语、定语、分句;用于劝诫人3、【注意】这里的“家”通“姑”,不读jia。大家,女之尊称。4、【相近词】不痴不聋,不成姑公。5、【英语】You can hardly be the head of a family unless you allow your successors to make mistakes.